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Dec 25, 2010

Attitude

Attitude, as you have heard many times, is every-thing. That theory has been written in thousands of books, spoken to millions of people, and driven deep into your mind. Why? It's true.

Your attitude is your own personal filter for every-thing that happens to you, around you, or within you. What takes place in this world is not as important as how you view it.

You cannot choose what will happen to you. You cannot guarantee success and happiness for yourself. These things are out of your control. You can, however, choose how you feel about these things, about how you respond to these situations.

With a positive attitude, you will have the ability to be happier each and every day, make others around you happier, and live a good life. Below are seven tips that can help you keep your positive attitude going.

1. PUT THINGS IN PERSPECTIVE
When you find yourself getting fed up and your mood is taking a turn for the worse, take a step back and put things into perspective.

Is the stress and frustration really worth it? When you look at the bigger picture, don't they seem a bit insignificant? They should, because nine times out of ten the daily problems we face are not really that important when we take a look at life as a whole.

You are alive, you have food, shelter, and freedom. These things are reason enough to smile when you wake in the morning.

2. HAVE SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO
You are expecting something in the mail. Each day you run to the mail box, filled with excitement and anticipation. And then, finally, it comes!

People love to look forward to things. Some say that anticipation of something happening is better than when it actually happens.

We all have special events that are coming up. Holi-days, birthdays, vacations, weekends, etc. Keeping these in mind will give you something to stay excited about.

3. HELP OTHERS
There is no better way to forget about your worries than to help someone else with theirs. When you take the focus off of yourself, and give your attention to helping people, your attitude will change dramatically.

This tip not only includes helping friends and family, but also volunteering to help those in need whom you may not know. When you give of yourself, you'll receive tenfold in return.

4. TAKE A BREAK
There are times when the only solution is to get away from it all. If you know that you are in a negative mood, or have been in low spirits for some time, take a break. It could be just what you need.

Taking a break can vary from a short trip in your car, to a vacation in the Bahamas. A walk around the block, or a leisurely drive around the neighborhood can also work wonders for your mood and attitude.

5. TALK WITH A POSITIVE FRIEND
Talking things out can help you see the good in a bad situation. Call a friend and tell them about your problem, or just chat about any topic that comes to you. This is a very therapeutic and effective cure to a rough day.

6. LIFE IS SHORT
One thing to always remember is that life is short. The worst thing would be to look back on your days wishing you could have been happier. Now is the time to take a good look at your attitude and make the necessary improvements.

Days, weeks, months, and years have a way of rushing by. Don't let them pass while you are in a negative mood about life. A positive attitude is worth the work, effort, and change that it takes to create it. Look back with no regrets, only happy memories.

7. PEOPLE HAVE DONE MORE WITH LESS
A common cause for a poor attitude is the feeling that you are in a situation that is just too hard to deal with. Perhaps you don't have the job you want, or you may have a boss that drives you crazy. It may even be more serious than that. You may be too young, too old, too tired, too unlucky, etc...

People have done more with less.

Many people from all over the world have overcome obstacles, solved problems, and maintained a positive attitude through the most trying of times. If they can do it, so can you.

The power of a positive attitude is always within your reach. You simply have to extend your hand and grab it. Use the tips above to gain a great attitude, and to make your life happier, healthier, and wealthier.

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Dec 24, 2010

Don't Be Afraid of Tomorrow

Don't be afraid of tomorrow
Build a road day by day
Mark it for others to follow
Finding joy and peace on their way.

A road wide and lined with trees
And shade for travelers to rest
It has been wisely designed
To climb to a sun-washed crest.

A road built to summon travelers on
From a green valley to a high hill
With a moonlit sky and a night so still
To the glorious promise of dawn.

On this road there is no sorrow
Don't be afraid of tomorrow.


WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH, THE TOUGH GETS GOING

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Dec 23, 2010

True.....Very True.....!!!!


We make them cry who cares for us.
We cry for  those who never care for us.
And we care for those who will never cry for us.
This is the truth of life., its strange but true.
Once you realise this, its never too late to change
If you look at what you do not have in life;
You don’t have anything.
If you look at what  you have in life;
You have everything.
Never explain yourself to anyone.
Because the person who likes you doesn’t need it,
And the person who dislikes you won’t believe it.
In Life Just don’t trust people
Who change their feelings with time.
Instead trust those people
Whose feelings remains the same,
Even when the time changes.
When we wake up in the morning, we have 2 choices.
Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams.
Choice is yours………
Winning horse doesn’t know why it runs in a race.
It runs because of beats and pains.
Life is a race, God is your rider.
So if you are in pain think God wants you to win.
Time is like a river.
You cannot touch the same water twice,
Because the flow that has passed will never pass again.
Enjoy every moment of life…..
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Dec 22, 2010

ME and MY BOSS

 When I Take a long time to finish, I am slow,

When my boss takes a long time, he is thorough


When I don't do it,
I am lazy,

When my boss does not do it, he is busy,


When I do something without being told, I am trying to be smart,

When my boss does the same, he takes the initiative,


When I please my boss, I am apple polishing,

When my boss pleases his boss, he is cooperating,


When I make a mistake,
I' am an idiot.

When my boss makes a mistake, he's only human.


When I am out of the office, I am wondering around.

When my boss is out of the office, he's on business.


When I am on a day off sick,
I am always sick.

When my boss is a day off sick, he must be very ill.


When I apply for leave, I must be going for an interview

When my boss applies for leave, it's because he's overworked


When I do good,
my boss never remembers,

When I do wrong,
he never forgets
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Dec 21, 2010

20 Rules of Life



1. Marry the right person . This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.


2. Work at something you enjoy and that's worthy of your time and talent.


3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.


4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.


5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.


6. Be generous.


7. Have a grateful heart.

8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.


9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.


10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.


11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.


12. Commit yourself to quality.


13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationship with people you love and respect.


14. Be loyal.


15. Be honest.


16. Be a self-starter.


17. Be decisive even it it means you'll sometimes be wrong.


18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.


19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the ones you did.


20. Take good care of those you love
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Dec 20, 2010

Fastest Thing On Earth

what is the fastest thing
 on the earth ?
revovlving earth


bullet ? - - - No,

sound ? - - - Not quite,

light ? - - - Almost,

Answer = PRAYER,
dog praying


because it reaches to God,
even before we can say it,

god is great
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Dec 19, 2010

10 Rules For A Good Day

1. TODAY I WILL NOT STRIKE BACK:
If someone is rude, if someone is impatient, if someone is unkind...
I will not respond in a like manner.

2. TODAY I WILL ASK GOD TO BLESS MY "ENEMY":
If I come across someone who treats me harshly or unfairly, I will
quietly ask God to bless that individual. I understand the "enemy"
could be a family member, neighbor, co-worker, or a stranger.


3. TODAY I WILL BE CAREFUL ABOUT WHAT I SAY:
I will carefully choose and guard my words being certain that I do
not spread gossip.


4. TODAY I WILL GO THE EXTRA MILE:
I will find ways to help share the burden of another person.


5. TODAY I WILL FORGIVE:
I will forgive any hurts or injuries that come my way.


6. TODAY I WILL DO SOMETHING NICE FOR SOMEONE,
BUT I WILL NOT DO IT SECRETLY:
I will reach out anonymously and bless the life of another.

7. TODAY I WILL TREAT OTHERS THE WAY I WISH TO BE
TREATED:
I will practice the golden rule - "Do unto others as I would have
them do unto me" - with everyone I encounter.


8. TODAY I WILL RAISE THE SPIRITS OF SOMEONE I
DISCOURAGED:
My smile, my words, my expression of support, can make the
difference to someone who is wrestling life.


9. TODAY I WILL NUTURE MY BODY:
I will eat less; I will eat only healthy foods. I will thank God for my
body.

10. TODAY I WILL GROW SPIRITUALLUY:
I will spend a little more time in prayer today: I will begin reading
something spiritual or inspirational today; I will find a quiet place
(at some point during the day)!
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Perfect - A Poem by FARIA Namreen

Perfect
You smiled at me and touched my heart.
I knew right then, we'd never be apart.
We walked and talked and realized we were the same.
I knew right then, someday I'd share your last name.
You're the closest to perfection I've ever known,
and I want to thank-you for the love you've shown.
I love you so much and always will
You fixed the hole in my life I needed to fill.
Anything and everything for you I'd do.
Oh, my love, how I need you!
Your loving embrace and gentle kiss
Fills my soul with erotic bliss.
Your compassionate heart and caring soul
Flourishes our love and helps it grow.
You are my lover, my confidant, and forever friend.
With all my heart, I choose you to the end.
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IF I WERE...

                        If I were a memory I’d hold you there forever
                    Reminding you of the good times we shared together
                                                  
                            If I were a smile on your face I would stay
                          Never to let sadness chase me too far away
                                                  
                   If I were a teardrop I’d roll gently down from your eyes
                           Not to burn much but to mend your sweet cries
                                                  
                      If I were a hand I’d want you to hold me in your own
                             Carry me through life .. even when I’m grown
                                                      

                         
If I were feet I would stay inline with you
                                So I could be with you in all that you do                                                      

                               
If I were a shadow I would always follow
                           We’d face things together in all the tomorrows
                                                      
                            If I were pain I’d stay far away from the start
               To make sure you never felt me or I never broke your heart
                                                                       
              If I were a song I’d be a sweet sound to your  ear                             
                        To keep up your hopes and carry you thru the years
                                                      
                               If I were strength I’d give you my all
                               I’d hold you high and never let your fall
                                                      
                                If I were your heart I’d be steady and true
                          I’d be there in every beat; staying strong for you
                                                                        
                               If I were the sun I’d shine down upon your face
                        Illuminate your smile and radiate through your grace
                                                     
                                   If I were a star I’d sparkle like your eyes
                          I would look upon your life and never stop my shine
                                                      
                              I don’t know how good at those things I could be
                                 I’m not any of them but this I want you to see
                                                       
                                 If I were a friend I couldn’t let you down
                       I’d never let you fall or walk away from me with a frown
                                                                           
                                  If I were a friend I would hold your hand
                            I would be with you always, I hope you understand
                                                          
                                   If I were a friend I would give you my all
                            And though it’s not much, I’ll be there when you call
                                                           
                                  If I were a friend I’d be in every memory too
                             When you laughed, when you cried, I’d be with you
                                                                                
                         I CAN be these things, it’s not impossible to be a friend
                                 I CAN be your best and I’ll be here till the end
                                                             
                                     If I were forever, you would be too
                                     Together forever – ME and YOU...
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Economic Principles of Abraham Lincoln

  • You cannot bring about prosperity by discouraging thrift.
  • You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
  • You cannot help small men by tearing down big men.
  • You cannot help the poor by destroying the rich.
  • You cannot lift the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer.
  • You cannot keep out of trouble by spending more than your income.
  • You cannot establish sound security on borrowed money.
  • You cannot build character and courage by taking away a man's initiative and independence.
  • You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves.
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Amazing Facts About Bananas

This is interesting. After Reading this, you'll never look at a banana in the same way again.


Bananas

Bananas . Containing three natural sugars - sucrose, fructose and  glucose combined with fiber, a banana gives an instant, sustained and substantial boost of energy. Research has proven that just two bananas provide enough energy for a strenuous 90-minute workout. No wonder the banana is the number one fruit with the world's leading athletes. But energy isn't the only way a banana can help us keep fit. It can also help overcome or prevent a substantial number of illnesses and conditions, making it a must to add to our daily diet.


Depression : According to a recent survey undertaken by MIND amongst people suffering from depression, many felt much better after eating a banana. This is because bananas contain tryptophan, a type of protein that the body converts into serotonin, known to make you relax, improve your mood and generally make you feel happier.
PMS : Forget the pills - eat a banana. The vitamin B6 it contains regulates blood glucose levels, which can affect your mood.
Anemia : High in iron, bananas can stimulate the production of hemoglobin in the blood and so helps in cases of anemia.
Blood Pressure : This unique tropical fruit is extremely high in potassium yet low in salt, making it the perfect to beat blood pressure.
So much so, the US Food and Drug Administration has just allowed the banana industry to make official claims for the fruit's ability to reduce the risk of blood pressure and stroke

Brain Power : 200 students at a Twickenham (Middlesex) school were helped through their exams this year by eating bananas at breakfast, break, and lunch in a bid to boost their brain power. Research has shown that the potassium-packed fruit can assist learning by making pupils more alert.
Constipation : High in fiber, including bananas in the diet can help
restore normal bowel action, helping to overcome the problem without resorting to laxatives.
Hangovers : One of the quickest ways of curing a hangover is to make a banana milkshake, sweetened with honey. The banana calms the stomach and, with the help of the honey, builds up depleted blood sugar levels,while the milk soothes and re-hydrates your system.
Heartburn : Bananas have a natural antacid effect in the body, so if you suffer from heartburn, try eating a banana for soothing relief.
Morning Sickness : Snacking on bananas between meals helps to keep blood sugar levels up and avoid morning sickness.

Mosquito bites : Before reaching for the insect bite cream, try rubbing the affected area with the inside of a banana skin. Many people find it amazingly successful at reducing swelling and irritation.


Nerves : Bananas are high in B vitamins that help calm the nervous system. Overweight and at work? Studies at the Institute of Psychology in Austria found pressure at work leads to gorging on comfort food like chocolate and crisps. Looking at 5,000 hospital patients, researchers found the most obese were more likely to be in high-pressure jobs The report concluded that, to avoid panic-induced food cravings, we need to control our blood sugar levels by snacking on high carbohydrate foods every two
hours to keep levels steady
Ulcers : The banana is used as the dietary food against intestinal
disorders because of its soft texture and smoothness. It is the only raw fruit that can be eaten without distress in over-chronicler cases. It also neutralizes over-acidity and reduces irritation by coating the lining of the stomach.

Temperature control: Many other cultures see bananas as a "cooling" fruit that can lower both the physical and emotional temperature of expectant mothers. In Thailand , for example, pregnant women eat bananas to ensure their baby is born with a cool temperature.
Seasonal = Affective Disorder (SAD) : Bananas can help SAD sufferers because they contain the natural mood enhancer tryptophan.
Smoking: Bananas can also help people trying to give up smoking. The B6,B12 they contain, as well as the potassium and magnesium found in them, help the body recover from the effects of nicotine withdrawal.
Stress : Potassium is a vital mineral, which helps normalize the
heartbeat, sends oxygen to the brain and regulates your body's water balance. When we are stressed, our metabolic rate rises, thereby reducing our potassium levels. These can be balanced with the help of a high-potassium banana snack.
Strokes : According to research in "The New England Journal of Medicine,"eating bananas as part of a regular diet can cut the risk of death by strokes by as much as 40%!
Warts: Those keen on natural alternatives swear that if you want to kill off a wart, take a piece of banana skin and place it on the wart, with the yellow side out. Carefully hold the skin in place with a plaster or surgical tape!
So, a banana really is a natural remedy for many ills. When you compare it to an apple, it has four times the protein, twice the carbohydrate, three times the phosphorus, five times the vitamin A and iron, and twice the other vitamins and minerals. It is also rich in potassium and is one of the best value foods around. So maybe its time to change that well-known phrase so that we say, "A banana a day keeps the doctor away!"
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Happy Life

Talk--------Softly
Walk--------Humbly
Eat---------  -Sensibly
Breathe----- ----Deeply
Sleep------- ----Sufficiently
Dress------- --------- -Smartly
Act--------- --------- -Fearlessly
Work-------- --------- ---Patiently
Think------- --------- ---- Truthfully
Believe----- --------- ---- ---Correctly
Behave------ ------------- -----Decently
Learn------- --------- -- --------Practically
Plan-------- --------- --- --------- -----Orderly
Earn-------- --------- --- --------- -------Honestly
Save-------- --------- -- --------- --------- -Regularly
Spend------- --------- - --------- --------- ---Intelligently
Love-------- --------- ---- --------- --------- --Passionately
ENJOY------- ---------- --------- ---------------COMPLETELY
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When you simply smiled at me today

Today when you looked at me,
I thought my heart could fly,
I felt something in my soul,
That I have never felt inside,
I just wanted to hold you,
Take you in my arms to stay,
I felt all of this inside my heart,
When you simply smiled at me today,
You took away my breath,
When you looked into my eyes,
All the pain I was feeling,
Just vanished, forever died,
I don't know how to tell you,
I don't know the words to say,
I just know,
I started to fall in love with you,
When you simply smiled at me today
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Meaning of F.R.I.E.N.D.S.H.I.P

”F" is for Fun....That friends share when they are together.

"R" is for Reliability....A true friend is someone that you can always rely on.

"I" is for Interest....Someone who is genuinely interested in you, your fears, joys, and life.

"E" is for Energy....They pick you up when you are down, and give you the energy to go on and believe in yourself.

"N" is for Nothing....Nothing is ever too much, no matter what time it is, night or day.

"D" is for Distance....Although the miles may separate you, a true friend is never far away.

"S" is for Secrets....Your feelings and personal/private thoughts that you can only share with a friend.

"H" is for Happiness....The way I feel when we are together.

"I" is for Inseparable....Through good times and bad, tears and laughter. A friend will always be there for you.

"P" is for Perfect...
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Ten things God won't ask

Have faith, Ten things God won't ask
1 ...God won't ask what kind of car you drove;
      He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation.
2...God won't ask the square footage of your house,
      He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.

3... God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet,
      He'll ask how many you helped to clothe.

4...God won't ask what your highest salary was,
      He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.

5...God won't ask what your job title was,

      He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.
 

6... God won't ask how many friends you had,
    He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.

7... God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived,
      He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.

8... God won't ask about the color of your skin,
      He'll ask about the content of your character.

9... God won't ask why it took you so long to seek Salvation,
      He'll lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven, and not to the gates of Hell.

10... God won't ask how many people you forwarded this to,
        He'll ask if you were ashamed to pass it on to your friends.


Read Carefully

Happy moments,  praise God. 
Difficult moments,  seek God.
Quiet moments,  worship God.
Painful moments,  trust God.
Every moment,  thank God.
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TAKE 10 ROSES........

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( \\\\ )     One for the popularity
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“.Y.
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Wonderful Thoughts


thoughts -take time once in a while to just enjoy the moment


thoughts -remember, your mother thinks you are cute even if no one else does


thoughts -always try to do what you are taught


thoughts -try to give a gentle lift to a friend in need


thoughts -search for the best route to what you are hoping for


thoughts -no good is too hard to attain when you preserve
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Dec 12, 2010

TRUTH: 21st Century

Our communication - Wireless
Our communication - Wireless

Our dress - Topless
Our dress - Topless 

Our telephone - Cordless
Our telephone - Cordless

>Our cooking - Fireless
Our cooking - Fireless

Our youth        - Jobless
Our youth - Jobless

Our food        - Fatless
Our food - Fatless

Our Labour - Effortless
Our Labour - Effortless

Our conduct - Worthless
Our conduct - Worthless

Our relation - Loveless
Our relation - Loveless 

Our attitude - Careless
Our attitude - Careless

Our feelings - Heartless
Our feelings - Heartless

Our Education - Valueless
Our Education - Valueless

Our follies - Countless
Our follies - Countless

Our arguments - Baseless
Our arguments - Baseless 

Our boss        - Brainless
Our boss - Brainless 

Our Job - Thankless
Our Job - Thankless

Our Salary - Very less
Our Salary - Very less.
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